What I didn't understand at the time is that the relationship was between them. The referral felt like a guarantee. It wasn't.
The work started months before my wife was due. The bathroom had to be finished. It was going to be her recovery space after the birth. It went over time and over budget. Errors accumulated past the point of confidence.
There was no signed contract. What protected me was documentation I had kept and documentation they hadn't. When it was clear the project wasn't going to be delivered as agreed, I had enough on record to terminate, retain the deposit against documented deficiencies, and bring someone else in to finish it correctly. They had nothing to counter with.
Most owners don't document. Most contractors know that.
What I learned is that a referral tells you someone has a relationship with a contractor. It tells you nothing about how your project will go. The person recommending has no stake in your outcome. Neither does the contractor, not really. You're one of many. Your property is not.
I built Sintra because owners need someone whose only obligation runs to them. The renovation oversight I provide for your project is the same process I built from that experience.